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writes:Hi. Me and my boyfriend are 17, we have been together 6 months now and recently we’ve been getting a lot more intimate. We havnt had sex, Im not quite ready yet so he has promised we’ll wait until I am but he does finger me and I give him handjobs (we havnt got to oral yet). We dont often get a lot of time on our own but in a couple of weeks my parents are going away for a few nights and he’s going to be staying at mine. He suggested we use the time to have some fun and says I should tie him down or give him a strip tease or something but he knows I am very self conscious and says he’s joking but secretly, that is obviously what he’d like. I know this so I’ve been working hard to boost my confidence up so I ‘ll have the confidence to be a bit more fun when the time comes and maybe I can surprise him? I just need some ideas! From what I’ve gathered, he loves the idea of me being in control- having me tie his hands up or blindfolding him seems to be the main fantasies. So without going completely crazy because im only a beginner in this stuff, does anyone have some simple but fun ideas that could make him happy? and if they might help to boost my confidence, thats a bonus! Thanks :)
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reader, happy140  +, writes (7 August 2011):
 I think the all day teaser works best and it allows you time to accept the outcome. Tell him you have pantie hose that you are going to use tonight. Tell him later it is to tie him up so you can have your way with him. Many women enjoy being in control, maybe not that much control but more men enjoy receiving that amount of control. It is a perfect opportunity for oral sex also. We go crazy when we cannot use our hands, you should try and enjoy having that kind of sexual control over him. Try it at least once and you may find it something you love or can only tolerate it occasionally. If he wants you to tie him but your unsure make him ties his own feet and then you tie his hands and then start the caressing in a sexual way. This can be a lot of fun if you want it to be. As for oral it would be a great way to lower yourself on his face and pulling away until you’re comfortable with staying there and receiving pleasure. MAKE SURE YOU HAVE A SAFE WORD. If you do this and he decides it is not for him at any point have a word he can say and you will untie him. This keeps you from thinking that he may want to be untied at any point during your wild time. Any word, such as sunshine or hamburger. Something that will not normally be mentioned in the heat of passion. Enjoy this learning experience and have fun. Looking forward to hearing how things worked out
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2011): Well first try not to plan it too much in detail because you may just end up worrying more. Instead of giving him a strip tease just try to wear your sexiest underwear. Say if he goes to the bathroom undress and when he comes up he will have a nice suprise of you just in underwear and I promise he won't be able to take his eyes off you.
If your self concious then you don't need to go too extreme, he will appreciate how hard your trying. Instead of tying him up maybe you could just push him down on the bed and pin his hands down and start kissing him, tell him not to move whislt you move down to kiss his chest and run your hands on the insides of his thighs.
Make sure to not do anything you don't want to.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2011): Lick him below n go slow and touch him slowly. Bound for him to feel nervous n exciting! Don't forget the condom!
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