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writes: iv been seeing this boy for about 5 months now and he has asked if i would give him a hand job which im completely comfortable with, i nearly gave one boy one before but we got interupted so my only question is how long do i do it for? too short and he wont have fun, but too long and he wil get bored. i really like him and im scared if i do it for the wrong amount of time he will finish me.. please help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2006): i asked this question. the first two you were a great help, part from the shower bit, im only 14 so i dnt think il be getting in the shower with him or liking him or leting him rub it through my breasts, my breasts won't e out
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): you should get him erected. than press his balls. squeeze them really hard. grab them. than before his about to cum do it again. it may hurt him but he will love it later. try and be as long as possible. than about 20 to 1hour later rub him quickley. all his cum will blow out really quick at pressure and he will love it. also lick alot. or let him slide his cock through your breasts. he will love it
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2006): First, be sure that you are ready for this step. Being sexual means really putting yourself out there and if you do it before you are ready or with the the wrong people it can really effect your sense of selfworth. The fact that you worry he may dump you if you do it wrong means you guys might not be strong enough in your relationship yet. Ask yourself why you are doing this? Because its the expected thing? Or you want to keep him? Or are you two ready for a greater level of initimacy? Secondly, you do it until he cums. It doesnt have to be that way always, but its a reasonable operating assumption. Third you may have to break down and talk to him about what he likes. Some girls dont get that slamming as fast as you can is not a good thing. Firm pressure and twisting at the top is good. How much? How hard? How should you tickle his sac? All good questions but will vary by the guy. You will need to find a way to have this conversation without breaking the mood. I'd suggest maybe you should start in the shower, it kind of a mellower environment with the background noise and you guys can work through the process of learning his cock.
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reader, jack23 +, writes (24 October 2006):
 The amount of time you should do a handjob for would be totally down to you and him. You should try and watch his face and reactions, you can generally tell when its time to finish.
Most men like to ejactualate when getting a handjob, this is a good time to stop lol. But usually he will let you know when to stop by guiding you, but otherwise you will just need to read his body language and facial expressions to know how you are doing.
Hope this helps :)
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