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writes:HELPPPPPPPI went out with this boy for over a year and we got on soo welll! Then we broke up and i fancyed him soo bad! Ovber the summer he wodnt see me n was alwys jellousing me and telling me to get over his.. making me look like a mug.. ect! So i tryed moving on... and and i found 2 people who i liked. One of them turned out to be a idiott bu i started liking the other alot! Now he wonts me backk. He makes me feel guilty that i wont get back with him but i feel bad. I love thje old memories with him and he meanss so much to me but i dnt know if i can go back. I cant get my heart broken again. I need to give him a straight answer before it gets out of hand... he even said life aint worth living without me! But i kinda like this new boy.. So basically Old timess or new start?? x PLEASEE REPLYY.. AS SOOON AS POSSIBLE
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (23 September 2007):
 you've got lovely memories and that is a lovely thing to have, you shouldn't feel guilty but you shouldn't get back with him.
he's probably lonely and you're an easy way to have some fun.
stay strong and tell him its best to let sleeping dogs lie, he had you, lost you and he's not getting you back. he doesn't respect you and didn't think twice about making you look like a mug, s do the same.
move on and have fun, you're so young! you got alot of experience to have and along time to have serious relationships!
good luck
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (19 September 2007):
I'm saying forget the old times and enjoy a new start. He broke up with you and he remained stern in his decision when you wanted him back. Now he wants you back and is making you feel guilty if you say no? That is crap, you can't give in to that.
You remember the good times, but don't let that fool you. You remember those because you want to, you don't want to remember the pain and it's causing you to ignore what he is doing to your right now; playing a guilt trip. And why is he all of a sudden interested in you again? Because it is convenient? Because he is jealous that you are getting close to someone else? He's playing a game that you probably don't want to play. If anything, you are the one that should lay the guilt trip on him for breaking up with you and playing with yoru heart.
Forget about him and move one.
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