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writes:i was seeing this guy and we split up after 2 weeks, because of his ex-wife (they split up 9 years ago)we kept in touch and after 2 weeks he text me and said he realised he couldn't live without me and to be honest he thought he was in love with me!! (i've known him for years) everything was great but he wasn't allowed to bring the kids to see me cos of his ex, but we managed. i went away 2 weeks later on holiday, he text and rang every day, telling me that he loved me and missed me, he even talked about us going away next year and wanted to book the holiday right away as he had every intention of being with me forever! (his words) i came back fom holiday, everything still good and two weeks later he said he 'doesn't do long term relationships'!! I'm heartbroken and i did get angry with him, but now i just miss him so bad and i can't seem to stop thinkin about him. don't know why it ended so suddenly
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (17 August 2007):
 Count your blessings. A dramatic change in feeling like that means he slept with someone else or is wanting to. He's not going to tell you he slept with someone else. He would say he doesn't want to hurt you by telling you the truth, but in reality he doesn't have the gonads to be honest with you. The result is the same, he doesn't want to be with you in a long term or exclusive relationship. Count your blessings because he cared enough about you to let you go instead of cheating on you and staying in the relationship. You met his needs, now he's moved on. I suggest you do the same.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 August 2007):
 I think we might never know why it ended like this. But, don't agonize over it. You will break your head trying to find an explanation, and you could even ask him for one, and he won't give you anything to grasp. Don't put yourself through all this pain. Just accept the fact: he's gone, for whatever reason. The real reason, he will never give.
At first sight, he doesn't look good. I've never known of anyone HONEST who can say he "can't live without you!, only to say, two weeks later, than he "doesn't do long term relationships". Maybe this is a man with a very short life expectancy? I wondered if this is what he said to his ex-wife. Apparently he is still alive.
I think it's best for you that such a bad apple is away. Try to see it this way. He wasn't worth it.
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