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writes:45 yr. old man asked me (42) out on a date "some day next week" (we work at the same location). He never gave me a specific date up front and I was left hanging for days wondering which date he'd choose, if any. Finally he said Thursday. Took me to a really nice restaurant for lunch and we had a nice time. Now, one whole month later, he asked me out again, same thing: no specific date "next week."Since I didn't have a specific date, I just went ahead and made a lunch date with friends on Wednesday. Then he showed up and seeemed disappointed I couldn't go on Wednesday, said he was busy on Thursday and "if I was around", maybe Friday. I just don't get him. He's very good looking, a bit arrogant, yet seems nervous when he's around me. He's 45, not a kid, yet seems to be acting a bit like one. Maybe he has other girls on the side, I don't know. I've never had someone wait an entire month to ask me out again, is this normal?It's been a while since I've dated and I sure could use some advice! Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 July 2010):
You'll find that this arrogant man has a few women on the go elsewhere, I think. Why bother with a guy who is so unreliable? He'll only call you when he wants something, not when you want something. I think you might as well move on to a guy who will actually woo you a bit more.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Hun, it sounds like he is dating other women as well and just expects you to be available whenever he wants you to be...
Go on with your life and dont pin too many hopes on this being a long term relationship!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 It is normal for an arrogant guy, and for one who is only mildly interested. Probably he is already seeing other people and thought that one more option won't hurt.
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