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writes:I love my ex boyfriend so much. We dated for just about 2 and a half months but I knew him for quite a while before. Before we got together he had a gf and although he had a gf, he flirted with me tried kissing me (I backed away as I would hate to do that to his gf) and he held my hand until I pulled it away after a few seconds. He did other stuff, such as touch me in certain places. Then one day his girlfriend dumped him, so me and him got together. I was the happiest I've been in a long time. Whilst being with my boyfriend the thought that he might be doing the same to me as he did to his ex remained in the back of my mind. Nevertheless I loved him and I've never felt the way I do about him for anybody before. After 2 and a half months he ended the relationship out of the blue and didn't give me an explanation either. I was so full of anger and hate then once I had overcome that I just couldn't stop thinking about him. I still cant. I love him so much, but now whenever he talks to me he tries to argue with me on purpose because he thinks it's funny to bring me down. Although he's hurt me and continues to hurt me more each day, I can't stop loving him. I just want to get over him...I need some advice.Do you think he did to me what he did to his ex? Please help me. It's driving me insane.
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reader, lucy +, writes (18 February 2006):
sweety i know exactly what youre going through. i was in the exact same situation and you and my ex dumped me a couple of weeks ago. Even though we had alot of history together and i thought that i would never get over him, trust me, every day gets better. It may sound shallow but write a list of all the things you didnt like about him and get friends to tell you what they didnt like about him aswel!! just keep on telling yourself that you're too good for him cos in my opinion you are. Get out there and have some fun flirting with other guys and just having a good time. This guy is obviuosly a player just like my ex as he had a gf when he met me but tried it on all the time. Guys like these should be hung in my opinion lol and girls like you shud end up with a decent guy. best of luck sweety love lucy xxxxxxxx
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reader, mister-squid +, writes (17 February 2006):
 I think the guy's an ass, and probably went from her, to you, to someone else. He probably was doing the same thing in my opinion.. You don't need someone like that.
Besides, 2 months is almost no time at all, and you can't find love in such a short relationship! Good luck in the future.
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reader, Danielle13 +, writes (17 February 2006):
 This man is not worth your tears and love. Exactly the same thing happened to me in the past and yes in the end I found out that he WAS doing the same to other females. Firstly you have alot more morals than many girls I have encountered and that is a very hard thing to come by. Secondly why should you be pining after a man who did not care enough to give an explanation? Thirdly you sound far to good for this man and although it is difficult please try and distance yourself from anymore heartache. Go out with the girls get drunk and otherwise occupy your time! you'll soon feel alot better! Trust me, I have been there and it feels so hard at times you feel like your heart might break. But it wont and you'll go on to be a stronger and more learned person because of it. And then you will thank him for turning u into the person you always wanted to be. Good luck! hope this helps a little x
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (17 February 2006):
 dear reader unfortunatly it sounds to me that it is more then liekly hitiry repeating itself if you don't mind me saying he sounds a bit of a sleeze i think your well out of it. For your sake i do hope i'm wrong but from past experiances i've been where you are now you will get over it in time i know its hard and it hurts loads but there is someone out there that will treat you just how you want to be treated and love you and only you not looking for the next victim so to speak.may-be its best to have a clean break save all those arguements he keeps giving you you don't need it at alli hpe this gets sorted out quickly for you and you feel better soon wish you well all the best xx
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