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26-29,
*isssparkles
writes:I am a girl, and I can get extremely turned on by other girls, but not so much with boys. I enjoy their bodies and find them attractive or not, but it is more complicated for guys to get me turned on than girls. I can only get really turned on by guys who I am in love with. I don't think I can never be in love with girls the same way I am in love with boys.I am 16, should I worry about this or just let it go? Reply to this Question
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reader, Abella  +, writes (21 August 2011):
 Hi Misssparkles,
You are still learning more about who you are and what makes you feel good.
You say you have been turned on by boys you feel in love with. So you understand that guys can be magical, funny, delightful, and make the butterflies dance in our tummies.
Most girls your age also spend a lot of time looking at pictures of girls - check out tumblr for some of the fashion shots. You are still checking out what you think looks fetching and attractive. You are still trying to define who you are
You should not worry. You should just value and respect and love who you are and continue growing and learning more about you before you escalate things too much. There are a whole lot of people to get to know before you can be more at peace with who you are and what turns you on.
In the interim observe how people behave and observe the sort of relationships you would be comfortable with. Learn to read people very well as you grow in wisdom about who are the people who will be right for you
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