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*retty2K12Lady
writes:I have a boyfriend...we been together a year...just the other day i confronted him about one of him and his females friends n how he be talking to her...he called her "sweetums" and he never called meh that...at least i cant recall. i felt kinda bad but i didnt say nothing until i saw him telling her he liked what he saw in her pictures...i was like wtf! but i told him in a nice way. we got over it and next thing you know i see on facebook him telling his homeboy he wanna break...he didnt say he wanted to leave meh but he was just telling his homeboy he needed a break but he hasnt mentioned it to meh so im not gonna say anything...my question is...i love this guy alot and we already planned a future tigether and everything...i act weird when my period is coming on and i knew thats why i took the whole situation out of proportion and i told him i act like that the day before my period...he said cooll...should i not call?should i not tweet him?what should i do??im confused and this guy is my life...i threw my playa playa days away just for him because i didnt wanna break his heart....please help...
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reader, Pretty2K12Lady +, writes (21 July 2011):
Pretty2K12Lady is verified as being by the original poster of the question well...he called meh two night ago and i told him how i was feeling the about the situation and he swore that it aint like that and he was like youre my first love and i wouldnt do you like that cause you mean so much to meh and den he told meh that he would never date her because she's just a friend thats all he see her as...i was like ok and den i asked him was he sure and he said yea...he said he do dat stuff cause he bored and i was like well im here n he was like i dont wanna seem clingy datz y i got friends and i was like ok den...so now were on a good page right now cause i told him how i feel andhe replied...he also said he never had a crush on her...
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (17 July 2011):
 Its time to break it off. Why not do it to him before he does it to you? It's going to happen sometime, and if it doesn't, then he's still flirting with someone who's not you. You don't want that do you? So break it off and start moving on. He already has.
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (17 July 2011):
sounds like you both need some space from each other to really figure out what you both want from this relationship i wouldn't text tweet or email or call him i would leave all contact for him to initiate good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2011): He is flirting with another girl and he's announced to his friend (and everyone else) on facebook that he wants a break from the relationship. The answer seems pretty clear to me. Walk away from this because it is over. He just hasn't made it official yet.
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (17 July 2011):
 Firstly, don't you tell your friends things about him when you're frustrated? People talk it out with their friends and say all the raw stuff they need to out. Some of it isn't really even legit, it's just the anger or the emotions talking.
The next thing is this other girl. Give it some time and space. He might just be friends with her. The other possibility is that this relationship has run its course and it's time for you guys to move on, but you just haven't talked about it yet.
I think you need to give each other a little space, especially over the nest week when you're hypersensitive. After your period is over and you've thought about everything you've got in your head, you two need to talk and figure out what you're gonna do.
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