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He throws paper at me, does that me he's interested?

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Question - (10 November 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *eartbrokenhelper writes:

lost password to account before , now i remembered. so reposting this under here :) thanks if you reply.

Hi i am 14yrs old i am NOT new to dating, just new to flirting. saying last time i had many BFs and i wasn't very confident ..now i am but am still kinda shy

well theres a boy at school who likes me, he is 15yrs old and is my B.F.F's brother..

yes my bestfriends brother!

i dont want to lose her as a friend , saying she and him are not close.at all.

well he thinks me and one of my dude-friends are dating (btw EWW never) and i told him that. well this boy hypothetically called "kyle" , well at my school people like to throw paper and or hornets (difference is paper doesn't hurt if contact with skin) and at lunch i sit near enough to him that he can easily throw paper, i thinks its him.. yet it might not.. if so is this a sign kyle is interested?

ps. kyle is not his real name

pps. lots of kids throw paper and hornets. but he looks at me than turns away when i look..

normally i dont pay attention to people that try like that to get my attention.

bonus question. if it is flirting what should i respond like , so he dosent get overwhelmed?

thanks

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (15 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony aunttalking to him, asking open ended questions that make him talk and get comfortable with you. Laughing, smiling, hanging on his every word.

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A female reader, heartbrokenhelper United States +, writes (15 November 2010):

heartbrokenhelper is verified as being by the original poster of the question

heartbrokenhelper agony auntthanks wolfredbane

umm well 1 update is that

he said somthing about breaking up with his girlfiend

after his sister and friends keep telling him to

he walked in telling his friends he might for "her" thus when saying that nodding his head in my direction :) eep

2. i have another question for ya.

this questioon is for "GUYS"

if you like a girl and shes hard to distract from schoolwork, have you ever banged on your chest (tarzan style, without screamin?)

thanks update later!

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A male reader, wolfred bane Singapore +, writes (12 November 2010):

wolfred bane agony aunthi im a guy 14 in 9 months and i think i know whats goin on.for the record ,yes, if a guy teases a gal its 90% chance helikes her.how do i know?....isn't it obvious?

well, u r right.he is shy.well,if u dun want him to get overwhemled..its kinda hard.isuggest just to walk right up n talk to him.he will proberly get overwhemled but its one of the only ways.good luck .keep us updated

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A female reader, heartbrokenhelper United States +, writes (10 November 2010):

heartbrokenhelper is verified as being by the original poster of the question

heartbrokenhelper agony auntoops i tried to take the throwing paper part out, saying i realize its not much as a flirting + he wasn't the one who threw it... but yep other things as his eyes gaze over me and linger there longer than he has on others. i am awfully clumsy and he notices that other people tag me as unstable and crazy he didn't... etc that sorta thing

hes very shy, so getting to know him will be kinda hard. any tips on flirting with a shy guy or getting to know him at least?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (10 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntFor the record I meant, "mean"..Sorry aunts, and uncles.

For OP,

Well hon just because he tosses paper like everyone else doesn't mean he's flirting. Instead of watching him why don't you talk to him, get to know him better?

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