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writes:Hello, im 15 years old and i'm having some boy issues. please help me? There is this boy 'C' i have liked since march of this year. We went on a school trip and he told me he liked me, problem was is that he had a girlfriend at the time. He kissed me once when we were there, i knew it was wrong. We got back from this trip and he broke up with his girlfriend, he said it was because he liked me. I was happy, and felt really special..couple of weeks passed and he still hadn't asked me out but we were still REALLY close. he became ill for almost 2 WEEKS and i didnt see him during that time, but i phoned him and was texting him constantly. He got better and came back to school and was being really off with me. I asked him how he felt towards me and he just said 'i still fancy you, just not as much'. I was heartbroken and still am. Me and him never ended up getting together but we are really close friends now. However, he doesn't know that i STILL like him!This is the tricky part, recently one of his friends 'B' has started liking me, i like him a little, but not enough to have a relationship with him. I have a feeling 'B' is gonna ask me out soon and i dont know what im going to say!!! should i go for it with 'B' and see what happens? Or should i wait and see if 'C' will start liking me again, the one i want to be with more than anyone? this has been on my mind for months, and doesnt go a day without going though my head! please help me!!!!
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (10 November 2010):
 Why settle for B for the time being, just to have a boyfriend? I agree talk to C again, he said he still fancies you..act on what little feeling he has left for you. However, if he doesn't want to get into a relationship, friends is better than nothing at all.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (10 November 2010):
 If you do not like B that much, I would not advise you to date him out of a blind hope for something to happen. You should only date someone if you truly feel something towards them otherwise it would merely be an excercise in futility.
I think you should talk to C about how you feel, if you two are very close, you should be comfortable with telling him, feelings do not simply disappear with a flu. Tell him and talk about it, takl about whether or not you will ever have a chance with him.
I hope that helps.
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