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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i have a boyfreind who is just a lil older than me. he is 24 and im 17 .we got along so well in the begining of our relationship and now its just falling apart it seems .he asked me if i wanted to have a threesome with my sister!i feel uncomfortable around him now and he talks about my sister when we have sex! i dont like it! sex was normal and then now all of a sudden he seems to do better when hes whispering dirty things about my sister in my ear!why is he doing this?we have been going out now since december of last year.my sister told me that when me and my boyfreind had just met that i wasnt home and it was new years and they went to a party and he tried to make a move on her! i love my sister but i also love this man im with! i of course believed my boyfreind when he said he would never touch my sister! i need majior help! this whole thing about the threesome is making me feel like im not worth anything and i feel like im unattractive now! he makes me feel so dumb !what do i do??
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (18 August 2007):
 Hi there,
Please explain to me why you would want to continue having sex with a man who so obviously wants to be doing it with your SISTER!
Wake up and smell the coffee, time to tell this loser where to go!!!!
Good luck!
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female
reader, hlskitten +, writes (18 August 2007):
 Next time your in the sack, whisper things in his ear, like 'your dumped!'
Geez, what a loser! Never believe a man over your sister, unless she is a real drop out! I bet she is wondering what the hell you are doing with him??
Good luck!
C xxxxx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (18 August 2007):
Next time your in the sack, whisper things in his ear, like 'your dumped'
Geez, what a loser! Never believe a man over your sister, unless she is a real drop out!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): This guy is a total loser!! You actually believe him when he said he didn't make a move on your sister at the party? He talks about her during sex & asks you to have a 3 some with her!!! Of course he hit on her. And if she would have agreed, he'd cheat on you with your sister in a split second!! Then he'd lie about it. He is using you for sex, and he is starting to want more excitement, as you're not enough to satisfy his disturbed sexual ego. He needs mental help. He should be dating a girl his own age anyways, not a 17 year old. Is your sister older or younger than you? If she's younger than he is trying to do something illegal too. Drop him.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (18 August 2007):
 What do you do?
You DUMP any man that would make a pass at your sister just becuase you are not around.
How can you expect him to respect you or your boundaries, when you would still continue to be with him after that?
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): You deserve better. Dump this idiot. You said you believe that he didn't make a move on your sister yet he would like to have a threesome with you 2 and whispers dirty things about her in your ears during sex - when your having sex he should be thinking about you! I'm afraid the odds are against you. I'm sorry if I seem harsh but it's true.
You need to dump him because he isn't good enough for you. If you finish with him I'm positive you'll find someone better who will treat the way you deserve and make you feel beautiful.
Please don't stand for it.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (18 August 2007):
 If he is making you feel unattractive and as though you are not worth anything, and he talks about your sister while you are having sex, then i would strongly advise you to get rid of this man as he is a total creep.
I would never stand any man talking about anyone else especially my sister while we were in bed together.
You should find someone that has respect for you like you deserve.
Take care.xx.
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