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writes: what should i do? i like someone who said he liked me and when everything was going ok he start to avoid me i think he might of heared somthing from someone eles that liked me at the time. i'm so confused because i like this boy a lot! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2006): the same thing has happend to me more then once, i dont know y the guys did that, but i think they just didnet like me so they dident want to face me! i got over it and now one of those guys r a pretty good friend of mine, it just took a few months before we became frineds again though. my best bet for u would be just to ignore it get on with your life and maybe look for a different guy
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006): I get the feeling that this guy isn't really your boyfriend but just someone you like. More than likely, he got scared because you came on too strong. If he really wants a romantic relationship let him make the next move.Be polite and friendly but don't flirt with him.If he doesn't make a move then he isn't interested.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (21 June 2006):
 You cannot control other people and if he wants to avoid you then so it shall be. However you should think that if his reasons for avoiding you are because he has been listening to gossip from someone else then it wouldnt have been a long lasting relationship anyway. You could try asking him why he is avoiding you as there maybe a simple misunderstanding, but there is not a lot you can do to change him mind if he is not interested.
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (21 June 2006):
 Oh dear! What knots we tie ourselves up into sometimes! Well darlin, sounds like something has triggered his response to avoid you. What that is I don't know, maybe just have it out with him, could be a bit flirty and say..hey, I'm beginning to think you no longer like me cos I haven't seen you around in a while...or something like that! Keep it light, see what his response is. Could be that someone has said something. Sorry, not clear on something here... do you think someone else likes you and that that someone else has had words with this guy you like?! Well, whatever, I hope this all works out for you and you get your hearts desire. xx
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reader, macin_bacon +, writes (21 June 2006):
 When i herd a guy liked me i started to avoid him because i was scared about what he would think of me ..maybe you could try talking to the guy just to make sure he's not mad with you.
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