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writes: My mom's freind has a son. He's 3 years older then me. Whenever I see him, he makes me feel uncomfortable. He always stares at my chest. One time I asked him if he could please keep his stares to himself. He said sure, but he still does it. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): Ew that would make me feel uncomfortable too! I agree with Danielepew, tell your mum about this. Then see what she says x
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (6 August 2007):
ok so you have told him to keep his stares to himself and still hasn't embrasses him, by saying my face is up here don't down there, make sure you point at your face when you say up here and point at your chest when you say not down here. talk to your mum about it as well, see will talk to her friend about it.
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reader, skye +, writes (6 August 2007):
I agree. Speak with your mother and tell her exactly what you have told us. She will know how to deal with this. If he still persists after this tell him in a REALLY loud voice (loud enough so that all the adults around will hear)that if a boy of his age continues to stare at your chest his eyes will fall out! This kind of embarrassment should work. It will allow your parents to know that it is continueing to happen and perhaps draw their attention towards seeing it happen for themselves.
Keep speaking up until he stops,
best wishes
Skye
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (6 August 2007):
Talk to your mom about this, and let the mothers handle it. You're too young to handle it yourself. Good for you that you're speaking up.
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