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writes: i like this guy alot..but he smokes weed ALOT! should i just forget about him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontoo late, ended things now because he chose weed over me!!! so he was not worth it
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2006): omg...(oh my god) I think you should stay with him...I know quite a few people who are with people who smoke it. Yes it's tue it can piss you off a bit, but just show him whether you like it and if he loves you as much as he says the does then he will cut down and eventually stop :) XX
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reader, mand +, writes (6 November 2006):
DONT GO THERE.......... honestly stay clear i was stuck in a relationship for 10 years with someone who did nothing but smoke weed, it just got worse and worse and worse, my life was hell he had mood swings was paranoid and most of all was just never with it, ill give you a prime example at our wedding reception he ended up going home at 8.30 stoned out of his head, i ended up having my wedding dance with my mum and brother, beleive me having the guts to leave him was the best thing i ever did, please dont even go there, you can do so much better just stay away, honestly take it from someone who knows xxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 November 2006):
If that's not something you're in to, then yes... let him go. If you really mean a lot to each other, there could be room for compromise or quitting or something, but if you're just toying with the idea of a relationship, then I wouldn't persue one.
Good luck!
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reader, pica +, writes (5 November 2006):
Yes. Unless he wants to stop - which is unlikely - it will always be a bigger priority that you, your home, your kids... His need for the weed will be more important than everything else in his life. I've seen that happen. Let him throw his life away on his own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2006): I don't know, do you enjoy just sitting on the couch and doing nothing, do you like a guy who has lost his ambition to achieve anything in life, so you like a guy with man boobs? Do you fancy yourself being stopped by the cops and having your car searched and spending a night or a day or month in jail for posession of an illegal substance?
Gee, I don't know, what do you think? It is up to you, gal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2006): Yes.
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