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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I like this guy and he likes me back. but he is 17 and im 15 so we cant date. we still hang out and go to his car and you know the rest of the story. lately he wants to do somthing with both my bestfriend and i,so i said yes beacuse i thought it might be fun. my bestfriend is his ex-girlfriend and she still likes him. ever since she started flirting with him they both have been ignoring me and he doesnt really talk to me the same.they both have been doing stuf together and leaveing me out. i feel the he is going to get back with her even tho he promised me he wasnt. and i always get on to him because he has a girlfriend but still does stuff with me and my bestfriend. he is a really nice guy and i like him a lot but is agreeing to let him do this wrong??
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reader, KANDIWRPR +, writes (29 November 2009):
 he is using u!!
do not let him continue
u r only 15
wen u get older and find a better guy
u r goin to regret tat u allowed someone like tat
to do tat to ur body
u should respect ur body
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): You would be risking your friendship and dignity entering into a threesome with a guy that lacks any respect for either of you.
You are obviously already having sex, and he's already had sex with your best mate. Doesn't that seem kinda weird anyway? You both deserve better than a guy who wants to play two friends.
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reader, Accountable  +, writes (28 November 2009):
 He very clearly isnt a really nice guy. He is playing you, his girlfriend and his ex-girlfriend so he can get sex. You are all being used. Also, you say you can't date because he's 17 and you're 15 - yet you think its ok to have sex with him? Whats the logic there?
Get some self-respect and stop letting him walk all over you. I know this sounds harsh, but its so easy for guys to play nice and manipulate girls into having sex, and you deserve better from a man. Good luck. xx
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (28 November 2009):
 This is so wrong.
Firstly; just because your 15 and hes 17 doesnt mean you cant date, it means its illegal to have sex. Which from the sound of it, your already doing. So technically from my point of view it would be better if you were in a relationship.
Secondly; your doing stuff with your best friends ex?! This is always a bad move, I think if you ever want to get involved with an ex, speak to your friend about it and make sure shes cool with it. However your saying you know she still likes him but your still messing about with him!?Not the best idea hun, not if you want to keep your friend.
And thirdly; you want to have a 3some in the middle of all this mess? Seriously dont, it will just become more messed up and confusing.
Ok, ill give it you straight; this guy doesnt want anything serious with either of you, hes thanking his lucky stars he has two girls to have fun with, who are willing to do stuff together. Dont give it to him. Both of you need to leave this guy alone. You need to speak to your friend about it. If she doesnt want too, I think you need to be the bigger person and let her try again for their relationship. Because she got their first, and YOU are her best friend. Dont hurt her like this.
Good luck, it will be hard but theres a perfect guy waiting out there for you :)
xx
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