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writes:Just wanted a few opinionsI had a huge falling out with a guy I was close friends withWe didn't talk for a long time bar the sporadic textSo he messaged me happy birthday a few weeks ago and I noticed this week has unblocked me from a messaging systemAre these good signs ?Not heard from him since
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 February 2017):
 If you want the friendship back then why not send him a message and ask him would he like to meet up and talk about the things that have happened. Only then will you know if he is wanting the friendship back or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi guys thanks for replying
Sorry should have made it clear
He wished me happy birthday via whatapp
There's. a communications system via internet he. Blocked Me on but I saw he's now unblocked me
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reader, WickedPoet  +, writes (12 February 2017):
 You don't say what the huge falling out was about. I am guessing given the resulting silence that hurtful things were said by both of you. Also the implication is you were friends and nothing more intimate. Finally it appears that when he wished you Happy Birthday he had you blocked so of course you could not reply. Now you are not blocked. It is possible he was surprised you did not acknowledge his greeting and then realized he had you blocked. As to whether this is a "good sign", it probably doesn't matter right now. What does matter is what you want. If it is to try to establish your connection or to try and repair your friendship, you might want to just send a brief message thanking him for rememberiing your birthday but nothing else. Don't apologize, don't bring up the past or the future. If it was a "good sign" he will follow up on his own. Otherwise just let it go. There will be plenty of time to discuss and resolve the issues later. Good luck.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 February 2017):
 Is it a good sign?
Well, he probably forgot to put you back on "block" after wishing you Happy Birthday.
But I don't see it as anything more than him trying to be polite and I wouldn't read anything more into it.
I'd just say:" thank you" back and leave it at that.
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