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writes:hiya going through a rough time with my bf been with him for 4yrs ive been chatting on line and hes seen my emails there wasent anything in it just boredom really he works away he says its over between us he still lving with me and out daughter hes been going through a rough time aswell he lost his dad last year and he feels guitly abt it he has regrets i talked to other people to ask abt him he went away again offshore today before he went away today hekissed me and said he loved me but ladt nite he said he felt sorry for me was gutted when he said tht he said its over but hes still in my bed hes supposed to be moving out to his dads house but i love him i dont wanna lose him is it over between us has he had enoug of me Reply to this Question
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reader, lovely37 +, writes (5 May 2010):
lovely37 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhes gone through a really tough time hes just lost his dad he says he doesnt no what he wants
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reader, lovely37 +, writes (5 May 2010):
lovely37 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy bf says he feels sorry for me what does tht mean
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 May 2010):
 He will calm down and think over it and he will probably come back to you .After all it is also his home.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (5 May 2010):
Sometimes a man says one thing and does another.He may not mean what he said. It just slipped out of his mouth. Once said , he cannot take it back.
It may have been spoken when he was very frustrated. Just ignore what he said and see his actions.
If you treat him well, he may not leave.
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reader, lovely37 +, writes (5 May 2010):
lovely37 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi i dont think he will have me back he seems pretty sure ant his feelings or maybe hes mad at me do u think he will be ok in time or do u think its over hes kept his distance from me came home whens hes had to he works awa so hes just off today again probably best just now
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reader, rcn  +, writes (5 May 2010):
 It's hard to tell because of his mixed signals. If you don't want to loose him, tell him so. Did you two get into an argument where his saying that may have been an emotional response to the argument? The context by which it's said, can show if it is meant, or if it was emotionally driven.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (5 May 2010):
 I feel the break down in the relationship is not solely caused by the online chatting and your online chatting is a result of not getting enough attention. Have you thought of the possibility of him having somebody on the side? He is not willing to work through this. If he can detach from you so easily to sleep with you in the same bed while you can't, you should sleep in a different bedroom and start getting used to the idea of being single again. You feel lonelier when you are with him. Even if he's not giving you reasons for leaving, you have to reflect on this relationship and draw closure yourself.
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