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female
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30-35,
*leanorstar
writes:Hi there.. i really need some of ur help pls..u see one of my guy friends asked me for a date..we have been friends for like a year. I went out with him just yesterday and this morning he talked to me and all..he also said that he didnt want to hide anything from me and told me that hes not sure that hes ready for a relationship and stuff. He says he still wants to continue dating and all and so do i. But im not sure i want to continue dating and never have a chance of being in a relationship with him. (He is also a shy guy so i had to do the first steps but then it was ok )..thx guys i really appreciate u listening cuz im really feeling crushed right now =/
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (30 May 2011):
 Dating is the first step! Shows interest in you doesnt it? If he is the shy type then i doubt he will run off for someone else or whatever. Just take your time, get to know each other, get out of the shy, awkward stage and by that time you know if you want to get further or if its better being friends. Just enjoy the time you share and show him how great you are :) Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): if he isnt ready and you arent sure just tell him to remain friends. issa fidejk
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): If there is a true friendship there, let it grow into what it is meant to be on its own. Trying to force the situation will result in disappointment and possibly losing a wonderful friend in the process. Give things time, but be careful not to invest more of yourself than he is willing to accept. Your first priority is your own well-being.
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reader, Annnia  +, writes (29 May 2011):
Date him, and give it time. Why would he bring up a relationship now? Way to early.. Date and have fun and relax for a couple of months and see where it leads
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