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writes: My bf said hes been cheated on before. Ive been readin about cheatinonline about signs, and he kind of fits some of the dscription butif i should believe it? Ive checked his emails and phone, it doesnt look like hes cheatin the way he talks to his frens that are girls, but im not really sure..i'm kinda feeling 50/50. He lied about not emailin this girl but i made him prove it to me and he really did, but it didnt really sound like hes cheatin but just fact he had to hide it from me, he said he hid it from me bcuz he'll know that i wont be ok w/him talkin to grls, he also lied about textin her becuz then later i found it on his phone but it just said 'merry xmas' so idk. Hes never once asked me to go to his fav activity w/ him but he asked her to go and i was mad at him,he said his friends know her too and said his fren asked him to ask her to go? Do u think hes lying? I always pick fights about it w/ him, and hes always tells me he will never cheat on me and that i dun have any trust in him at all.
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (1 January 2007):
Give him the benefit of the doubt...and let that go. Some guys being accused of something that they didn't do constantly, might Push them in that direction saying to themselves: Hell, my gf keeps accusing me of cheating when I'm NOT..I might as well do it since she thinks that I am!
If you love him Believe him! And about his fav activities..maybe you kinda made him think that you don't like to do that. Show him some interest...and you will get an invitation! I hope it works out for you two!!
good luck!!!
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