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writes: Im 15 years old and like an 17 year oldhe iss soo awsomee. he is just plain amazing.but im so confused he is saying he likes me but I know him to well to know im not good enough for him and all he wants is sex. I totally want to have sex with him but, then theres all my friends.what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): Yikes, what you said about this guy indicates that he has a very selfish, self-centered personality. If you know this about him then why are you allowing yourself to possibly be a doormat. Remember, use your head hun and quit thinking with your hormones. So what should you do? Muster up some courage and some pride and kick him to the curb. You deserve better and remember, you are good enough to do better than this cad!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): Childof1981 is giving you good advice! You really need to think hard about this and decide whether you want to have sex with this boy who you say ONLY wants that.
Also consider that at 15 you are under the legal age to be having sex at all.
Don't be too eager to rush into it!
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reader, childof1981  +, writes (2 November 2006):
 I would take a few steps back here and give the situation some serious evaluation. I would ask yourself the following questions and do some self reflection.
1. Sex can have serious consequences, such as pregnancy or STDs (including AIDS). Are you prepared to deal with them should they arise and is the risk acceptable to you?
2. You have admitted that this guy probably wants only sex and nothing more. Are you comfortable having casual sex without a relationship?
3. Due to your age group you may have to deal with social consequences from your peers(including friends) about this. Are you prepared for them should they arise?
I don't want my questions to come off as "Preachy" or anythign like that as I don't believe that there is a right or wrong answer to your question. Judge for yourself if the gains outweigh the potential costs and make the decision that suits you.
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