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writes: I met a guy a while back now in the local pub and got on really well. We met up a few times mostly whilst out while drinking, but few times popped round 2 my house and stayed over. I went out one nite with my sister and he actually asked me out. He stayed the nite but then we lost contact. I know he was upset cos we hadnt phoned into his workplace and said he wouldnt be in that morning. Then a few weeks later I was out with my mate and we bumped into each other in a club, he seemed apprehensive 2 come over 2 chat but when he did I started 2 have a go at him 4 not being in contact. He told me that we couldnt b together as he is in a gang and doesnt want me 2 get hurt. He walked me home but he stayed the nite and promised to never leave me again. I really thought he was being trueful and I let my guard down.We have now lost total contact AGAIN!!! He knows everything about me all of my biggest secrets and knows ive been hurt before, i really felt that he was 'the one'. Y would he ask me out and then disappear like the way he did. Im really confused and dont know if he cares 4 me or not. Please Help as im still madly in love with him and need 2 put my mind at rest b4 it destroys me. Hes 25 and im 20 by the way. Shouldnt he be old enough to not play these games? He doesnt live in the area and hes not picking up his fone 2 me. Please help!!! thanx xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2006): your being taken for a fool, he wanted to hit and quit, if a guy really likes a girl he sticks around, a 25 year old shouldnt be playn games, if he was, then hes a kid. Get it outta ur head.
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reader, pica +, writes (3 November 2006):
He likes you when it suits him - when you're available and he's got nothing better to do. I'm sorry this has happened but you might want to hold off in future - if you start acting like he's The One that could freak a lot of guys out. It is allowed to get to know someone before you sleep with them - that weeds out the one-night guys. And maybe hold off on telling them all about yourself and your past until you both know each other well. Put him out of your mind and don't give in if he appears again with his empty promises - don't listen to him. Good luck.
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