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writes:i was seeing a guy for a while fairly seriously..and then it all went a bit wrong. we are now no longer anything serious but i will occasionally speak to him or see him on a level that is more than just friends. but i know he is no good for me and i really need to pull away from him..but this is the hardest thing ive ever had to do. i can't think of anything but him and its taking over my life. i feel he is just messing me around. a lot of people have said that they know he is a player and is probably seeing other people because that's the type of guy he is..yet when i ask for more details nobody can give me any, because it's all just what the think he's doing..not what they know.so basically i need help or advice on how to get over him, and also opinions on what he is playing at? he gets angry at the thought of me with other guys and says he likes me, and that he hasn't done anything with other girls since we were seeing each other..but my friends are telling me he's the type to play away..i just don't know who to trust or believe anymore!!
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (4 August 2008):
 You said so yourself that he's no good for you and that he's messing you around, so why do you need to know if other people are telling the truth or not? You decided he's not good, so that's the reason for you breaking up.
I suggest you to read these articles:
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-a-Break-Up
http://www.wikihow.com/Heal-a-Broken-Heart
They will give you tips on how to get over him and how to heal yourself afterwards. I would have written it here, but the websites have a more neat, better-readable format that does not bore the eye. Please please read them.
Now what you should do is to just trust your gut instinct. You said he's not good for you, so don't really try anything more with him besides just friendship. And your friends may or may not be telling the truth, but probably they're telling you this because they don't want you to get your hopes up, go back to him, and have your heart broken again. They're just probably looking for your own safety.
Please read the articles, and good luck.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (4 August 2008):
 Trust your friends. They probably are trying to protect you. Also look at his actions and not what he says.
Players want to know they can have you but are selfish and don't want you to have anybody else. I say get over him by finding hobbies and doing things to get your mind off him. It's hard at first, but time will make you forget. Also, try dating new people and don't listen to what he says
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