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female
age
41-50,
*oncerned2009
writes:I am getting confused but I guess that is to be expected in my situation. I am doing everything I feel is right to get him back but today he woke up, and I had dinner ready and he got mad. He stated, while living here by myself I got comfortable doing things on my own. I don't want you to do things that I can do for myself. He told me last night that if I wanted to make deer chili that i could and I put a couple of cokes in the fridge and he got mad at me for that too. I dont know if that is normal or if i should just give up on this relationship. I really dont want to but I may have to if it keeps staying like this. I can understand that he is in a lot of pain. This is my first marriage and his third. He is 13 years older than myself. He said he doesn't want to be married anymore. He says he doesnt hate me and i can tell he still cares about me. Please someone tell me what you think is best.Thanks for reading!Please Read some of my other posts please. Then leave your advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 January 2010):
I hate to tell you this, but you're with a man who has now been married three times. He's a controlling nightmare. To be honest, it worried me that you're still with him, because he's really trying to control you. You had dinner ready for him, and he got mad because he said you'd become comfortable doing things on your own. And then he got mad at you for putting cokes in the fridge. This isn't normal, this is about a man who has serious issues. No wonder his other wives left him, they were probably sick this treatment too. He doesn't want to be married anymore, so don't sit there thinking he cares. Because take it from another man, he just doesn't. I would end it now and move on.
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