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writes:I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 12 years and father of my 3 daughters. I was good until i heard he was dating this new girl. I know that i did the right thing by making him leave but ever since i heard that i find my self sad, crying uncontrollably and feeling worthless. How can i deal with this so i can move on?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 April 2010):
Call of those friends of yours and get out there and have some fun. You're upset because he has been able to move on, while you at this time haven't. So throw yourself into your life. When your kids are away, go out. Start a new hobby and meet new people. You just need to get back out there a bit and meet people and feel as if you're moving on too. You'll get there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): Its normal to cry when someone you love deceives you and I can imagine that the fact that he has moved on so quickly after being kicked out must make this even worse for you. You did the right thing! Allow yourself some time (fixed amount of time) to cry and deal with your emotions. Get yourself back on your feet and go out there and live YOUR life! Life is a gift and you have to grab it with both hands. You should see this breakup as an opportunity to start over! Good luck hun. I hope all works out for you. xx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 It is natural to feel that way and you can get over it by following some procedures.
You can also Google online(key words, 'How to get over a breakup?')for more resources and tips.
Go to the gym or exercise to release those stress.
Don't let him see you in this state. You have to show him that you have moved on.
reference;-
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-a-Break-Up
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reader, WiseAngela23  +, writes (1 April 2010):
I had something similar to this but the first thing I did is call up my girlfriends, we went to Vegas and I met a guy and i couldnt be happier. You just need to put yourself on the market. Show that nothing and no one can make you feel worthless!
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