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writes: hi. so i have this really big problem. well not really big. but i really like this guy and i cant tell if he likes me. he makes it so confusing. like everytime we talk hes mean to me. but hes nice to everybody else. and i've talked to my friends about it and they say that he likes me but i really dont get that. but this sunday we were at youth at my church and he said i was annoying but only annoying when i mother him. and i've never mothered him. so i dont know. does he like me? i cant tell. Reply to this Question
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reader, mrkhmcookie  +, writes (8 April 2009):
ok,wow (no offense) but this seems like a kindegarten issue, on his part not yours, first of all, has he ever acted like he likes you. if not then give up and back off, unless someone he is close to gave you a direct quote that "he likes you, he told me so" then just back off and find a guy thats worth your time. if he is on and off with you and acts like he is into you at times than find time to pull him aside and straight up ask him if he likes you, if he refuses to answer the question in a shy way he is probably confused, he refuses to answer in a mean way than he's an asshole, but not enough to hurt your feelings (he doesn't like you) if he says no, good he seems kinda jerkish (lol no offense sweety), if he says yes than tell him to act like it, tell him you like him too and you'd keep liking him if he stops being an ass.
good luck!
just remember boys will be boys....forever. dont expect a young guy to put you as the first priority and to be ultimately romantic, guys aren't like that.
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (7 April 2009):
I dont think he knows the real you and hes not willing to give you the chance. People like this dont usally deserve the chance so if he says your 'mothering' him take a step back and play it cool, he will then be the one come running. Some guys use any excuse as a way of getting out of something, give him space and then leave it to him.
Dont spend your time fretting about how you are with him, if your honest and constantly yourself then he should love you for who you are.
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