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*smit
writes:Hi, does my boyfriend cheat on me? A while ago I've found some empty packing of condoms in the dirt bin at his house. He said that he threw the condoms away because the date had expired and he wanted to be sure that we would have save sex. I find this really weird. The packing was opened and the date was not expired. Bizar, I think. His reaction now: angry and he doesn't want contact with me. I'm wrong and suspiciously. Am I exaggerating or am I just being naive?
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reader, Ssmit +, writes (22 September 2007):
Ssmit is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want to thank everyone who answerred my question! I really appreciate it!
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reader, Kay-lee. +, writes (22 September 2007):
 In my opinion and probably in many others, he's cheating on you!
And the fact that you're own boyfriend lied to you is a big sign that he doesn't love you.
I know that this comment probably will sound harsh but I think you should dump him before he dumps you.
And remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea, though the next lucky man you meet probably won't be a fish.
But good luck anyway!
Kay-lee. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007): Yes to me, he's been cheating. Why the hell would he have to open them to throw them away?? And you know they're not expired when he said they were. Sounds like a liar to me. And the fact that he doesn't want contact with you now, & he was all defensive. What else do you need to know?? Move on you can do better.
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reader, rose the relationship solver +, writes (22 September 2007):
 He might be he might not be just go extremley careful. He might be telling the truth, who knows
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007): Perhaps he's just embarrassed that you found them. It could be that he used them when pleasuring himself - it doesn't make such a mess of the bedsheets. Expensive way of w***ing though!
Phil
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reader, Ssmit +, writes (22 September 2007):
Ssmit is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answer!
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (22 September 2007):
 Well, you have every right to be suspicious. He clearly has lied to you somewhere here; by telling you they were out of date, when you saw that they weren't.
I think you two need to talk about it. Ask why he lied to you. If he should react angry, and say things like "you don't trust me, why should I explain.." ect, you can now quite easilly turn around and say that you had every right be suspicious, becuase he lied to you.
Perhapps there isn't any need to sound the alarms, so to speak, but I think either way, you two have problems trusting eachother.
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