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Can I still get my ex boyfriend back?

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Question - (11 June 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

 Hello everybody I need advice please..

I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years and he broke up with me because he said he needed space and time to him self.. I was sooo sad and depress I was really sad..  He said he wanted to live life and enjoy being 21 and we lived togetheir so it hurt me alot waking up every morning and he wasn't their.. Everything happened out of nowere he was sooo nice to me I dnt know what happened he said that I wouldn't give him space or let him go out but I told him alot of times let's work things out and I promise I will change and give u space and he told me no I want to get back with u but not right now I need time to live life..  :( he tells me he misses me and still loves me because I was his first love but he wants to live life... And  he tells me he dosnt talks to girls but I know for sure he talks to girls :(.... So he would only call me when he felt like it if or answer me when he would feel like it.. So I finally decided to put my foot down and I decided to completly ignore his calls and texts at least for a month to see what he does.. So this last past 2 weekends he calls me in the middle of the night and I don't answer him and he starts blowing me up.. I ignore him and he leaves me messages telling me off and telling me I'm gna regret it not him.. I dont know what he meant by that.. And then I answered him once and I told him y r u calling me is not like u miss me and said "what do u think If I'm calling shouldn't it b obviouse if I miss u or not? " and he was cosing me out telling me I bet ur gna start being with some ugly guy and get pregnant from him and then get married :( when he said that it got me really sad because I feel if he said that he dosnt care abt me anymore??? What do u think ? Do u think he still loves me? Do u think his starting to miss me? Why do u think he calls me when he is drunk?  I just dnt know what to think? Please help.. After I hung up in him he kept calling me ando just ignored his calls.. Please what do u think he is feeling... We broke up 3 months ago..  His 21 and im 22 we lived togetheir for 2 years and were togetheir for 3...  I bearly decided to start ignoring him because it hurts me alot that he wants to do what he wants and he thinks he has me.. HELP good advice please.. 

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2010):

petina1 agony auntI think you handled it brilliantly by not answering his calls. He didnt like it did he. I'ts okay for him to walk away and tell you he needs to live, but he doesnt want you to have a life. You are not a sitting duck waiting for him to pick you up then drop you. Maybe life away from living with you isnt so good after all and he's starting to realize this. If you want him back then you need to talk to him about all this. These things can't be solved over the phone. Find a neutral place to meet, not the flat you shared. See if you can find a solution. It is so obvious though that he hasnt liked 'whats good for the goose is good for the gander scenario'. Well done girl!.

Good luck with whatever solution you come to. Hope this helps.

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