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writes:Me and my best guy friend finnally admitted to eachother that we liked eachother. A week later he asked me out over a text, I said yes but that he had to ask in person too. Later that night we were being all fliry and sweet. Then we decided that we'd go to the fair the next day as our first official date. I was extremely excited but he had to work the next day till 3 so i was waitin around for him to txt me. He said, in his text, "I dont think that we should date because we have a good friendship that i dont wanna ruin". I was really mad because he shoulda thought of that before he even told me that he liked me as more than a friend. But I just got over it.Then on facebook i started a chat...Me:Hey Him:Hi Me:Sup Him:Nm u...I'm also talkin to another girl I like Me: Thx nice to kno Him:yup ....I cried right there and closed the window.Why would he do that? He told me that he wanted to keep being the close friends that we were and then goes and makes me cry. What did I do? Why do i get treated like it's my fault? Please help me. he wanted to be friends but now we aren't even that...Plz help!
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reader, LuvDrunk +, writes (15 July 2010):
LuvDrunk is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthx for the advice, it makes me feel better. We've made up but it still hurts. He's lost all my trust and i really don't know if we are ever gonna b as open as we once were....but thank you so much
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reader, NatreeRose +, writes (14 July 2010):
 He probably said that to cover his ass. He freaked out when he admitted he wanted more than a friendship, and him saying he was talking to another girl was just a cover up. He probably wasn't even talking to anyone, ha. He's just scared because he could have potentially ruined a great friendship, and although his comment was pretty dumb he didn't say it to hurt your feelings. Guys can be pretty weird when they freak out ;) Don't sweat it girl, just tell him that staying friends is just fine, and who knows what could happen down the road?
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (14 July 2010):
 He seems to be playing with your head. or just trying to make you really jealous and want him. I say don't talk to him for a while. he will soon realise the mistake he made hurting you. And even if the friendship is restored that way, he isnt worth knowing, friends wouldnt do that someone.
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