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anonymous
writes:Dear CupidI am dating a guy for past 5 months, we meet every weekend in his place. Its not perfect, but its good, he doesnt like talking in phone or texting, so i dont usually call him over the week, even if i do its rare that he picks up the call. He never responds to text on time either.I met his family in a party and met his friends. But lately its being impossible to even talk to him, he criticizes me all the time, says i keep him awake at night cause i toss in bed or ask him something while he is asleep. I dont remember either of those and told me that he doesnt want to me stay over weekend anymore.He is not responding to my text again, what should i do now, pls help me
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 August 2016):
 I am sorry but he has not interest in you at all, he keeps making excuses as to not see you, there must be a reason why he does not want you to contact him during the week, maybe he has a girlfriend who knows. Sweetie it is clear that this guy is wanting rid of you, so do the best thing for yourself and call it quits. You deserve much better than this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2016): Let him go. You probably toss because you're in an unfamiliar bed. Why didn't he want to spend time at your place? Did he ever?
The first thing most people do when a relationship doesn't work-out is assume they're undesirable. Most of the time people just can't make a love-connection because you're not a good match. It's that simple.
You can overreact based on your own insecurities about yourself; but it's best to move on, and take some off-time to work on the personality quirks you are aware of. If you are insecure and spend a lot of time seeking reassurance from your partner, tone it down.
If you ask me, if he didn't want any calls or text messages; it was because he didn't want them on his phone.
Maybe you didn't make a big hit with his family.
Keep your self-esteem intact and chalk it all up to incompatibility. You aren't what he's looking for. Be that the case, with all his rules and weirdness; he's not what you're looking for either. Besides, he's critical of you.
Who wants a bossy boyfriend you can only see on appointment?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 August 2016):
 "What should i do now?"
you should
a. stop texting and calling him
and
b. consider the relationship over and move on... he's done.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (23 August 2016):
 Wow!! He really doesn't like you and he's made himself pretty clear. Certainly not being subtle about it!
Don't take it personally; sometimes things don't work out and you just have to move on. Don't do anything, don't try to get back to him, don't contact him. You have more self respect than that. If someone doesn't want to be with you then it's their loss, not yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2016): Let him go. You probably toss because you're in an unfamiliar bed. Why didn't he want to spend time at your place? Did he ever?
The first thing most people do when a relationship doesn't work-out is assume they're undesirable. Most of the time people just can't make a love-connection because you're not a good match. It's that simple.
You can overreact based on your own insecurities about yourself; but it's best to move on, and take some off-time to work on the personality quirks you are aware of. If you are insecure and spend a lot of time seeking reassurance from your partner, tone it down.
If you ask me, if he didn't want any calls or text messages; it was because he didn't want them on his phone.
Maybe you didn't make a big hit with his family.
Keep your self-esteem intact and chalk it all up to incompatibility. You aren't what he's looking for. Be that the case, with all his rules and weirdness; he's not what you're looking for either. Besides, he's critical of you.
Who wants a bossy boyfriend you can only see on appointment?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 August 2016):
 I think you should consider the relationship over.
He can't REALLY be bothered with you and criticize you for things most people do, like toss in a bed they are nor familiar with and/or talk in your sleep.
And what is the point of dating someone who doesn't WANT you around?
Honey, accept that you two are NOT a good match.
Wish him well, then block him and work on moving on.
YOU are wasting your time with this one, no matter WHOM he has introduced you too.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (23 August 2016):
 It doesn't sound like he's that invested in you. You should move on.
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