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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I really fancy this bloke, he is the same age as me but very experienced and i am not in any way, he always makes remarks that he would be up for a one-off, which i am interested in because i like him and i know that it's not good to be used for your first time but i would if i had the confidence to do it, the reason i have never slept with a guy or done anything with a guy is because i am very nervous because i don't know what to do, i tried to snog someone once and it just went wrong and since then , nothing. I am not overly keen on my body but i just wish i had the confidence because i really want to - i can flirt all day and have a laugh but i know if he came onto me i would pull away. Has anyone got any useful tips/advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): i have some advice for you, dont be used by this man pleaseee! you sound like such a fantastic woman you really dont need him. you need to go out love life have fun build up your confidence find someone special who likes you alot and respects you and take things slowly. when you have sex with someone who genuinley cares about you, you wont be so uptight or nervous it will just come naturally. your confidence will be even more shattered if you let this guy use you, trust me i did the same thing.
good luck
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