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He probably will never like me

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Question - (9 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There is this guy that I have really liked for about 7 months. He stares at me a lot and his friends that I don't even know look at me and whisper as I walk by them. We are both really shy. He never really spoke to me. I know he listens when I talk because I was talking to his friend one day in class and he asked me a question about what I said. That is all he has ever said to me. He used to sit in front of me and he would always lean on my desk and look back like he was wiping his chin on his shoulder or looking out the window or the kid behind me. First off do you think he likes me? Now the only problem is he is average height and weight. Not even chubby, but not rail thin and he is about 6 feet tall. I on the other hand am about 5 foot 7 and a little more on the chubby side. Actually a lot more on the chubby side, but I've started a diet and I've actually lost a little weight. My question is do you think he could actually like someone like me? I really don't think that he would so I 've been trying to convince my self that he doesn't like me. I just don;t think that he would like me. Everyone is always like your so pretty and nice. Why don't you have a boyfriend?

I just don't think someone like him would ever like someone like me.Everyone is always like people who are complete opposites fall in love, but I don't know. Basically my questions are Does he like me? and Is it possible that he likes me even though I do have extra weight?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009):

Sweetite, I am on the chubby side and the guy i always liked loved me for who i am. Not what i look like.You remind me so much of myself, Just ask him girl go get him. life is just too short you will feel an idiot when time passes you by and you realize you have missed your chance!

Believe me is was the best decision i could have ever made.

Good luck babes.

Take care angel.X

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (9 April 2009):

niki20 agony auntnever doubt yourself. if people tell you that you are pretty, you probably are. to me yes it does sound like he likes you. by telling yourself that he will never like you it brings your self confident levels down. you shouldnt do that. oppisites attract alright, believe that one. you sound nice and im sure you are beautiful. try talking to him even if its a little convo. you sound sweet so give it a chance it wouldnt hurt you.

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