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36-40,
*cockerham
writes:Ive been with my bf for almost 8 months now and things are going well apart from a few little things. He never seems to kiss me when we are out (im not wanting a full on snog im asking for a peck on the cheek). I kiss him and hes fine with it but he never seems to make the first move to kiss me. I asked him about it and he said "im not a big kissing person i prefer to hold your hand or put my arm aroung you". And he doesnt seem to kiss very much when we are alone either, i asked him about that also and he said "im just not the type of person who needs to be all over someone". He wasnt saying that i was but i dont understand. Doesnt he want to kiss me? I ask him and he just gives me these confusing answers like i put above. What does it mean? Please help me. I feel like he doesnt love me? I thought all guys would love to make out most of the time? What do you think? (were both 21)ThanksIt hurts to think he doesnt love me anymore, or that he never actually has!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): Well if he just doesn't kiss you AT ALL, that's really strange. Maybe there is something he is not telling you. Is there any making out and intimacy in this relationship at all? And if so, how often? I mean is it just that he won't kiss you but you guys do other stuff? Cause if there isn't and he avoids it, then he might be gay. In fact, if this is the case, he probably most definitely is gay.But if he does kiss you and you guys make out and he makes you feel like he wants you, just not in public, then I wouldn't worry about him being gay. Its probably just what he told you it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): maybe your breath smells?? i know it is harsh but that could be it!
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reader, ...cat...  +, writes (17 August 2007):
hay i agree!!!you should talk 2 him bout it and tell him how it makes u feel...if its a case that hes just not a touchy-feely person in public he should make an effort for you in private!!if he still doesnt get cuddley with you mayb you should look at how compatable the 2 of u are!!u deserve 2 feel loved!!good luck xxx
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reader, Skeez +, writes (17 August 2007):
 Heya dolly
I thought the exact same when I first went out with my bf. He wasnt realy that affectionate and rarely kissed me in public. It seemed as though he was embarrassed.
Talk to him more hun. Communication is your key.
Maybe he isnt the type of person who lieks to be affecionate. but i stil reckon he should do it to show you he loves you. Mention how unloved you feel and ask him why cant he be affecionate with you.
Talk talk talk.
If he doesnt listen then maybe hes not the right person for you. Or he hasnt matured enough yet to do those things. even though hes 21.
Goodluck hun
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