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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Is there something wrong with a man who never wants to talk over the phone? I know nowadays with the advancement of technology, texting and e-mails are the thing, but this man I have been seeing since Thanksgiving never calls. We have never spoken over the phone. We even make our plans for hanging out via text. Is something wrong with this or am I just crazy? Please help with any advise.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (27 February 2011):
I hate talking on the phone, it sucks not being able to see the facial expressions/body language of whoever I'm talking to so I just end up using generic comments like "cool", "oh yeah?" and "I see". That just leads to awkward silences... which I absolutely hate.
SMS is brilliant. It's a quick and efficient way to make plans to actually SEE somebody IN PERSON.
The phone is still unnatural "technology" either way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011): I wouldn't worry about it as long as he is planning your dates ahead of time and he is making sure he sees you every weekend. If he is texting you to go out last minute and you see him randomly then theres a problem.
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