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*oinlove1234
writes:Last night i was having a sleepover with 3 of my best friends, two of which are guys. were all 16. we decided to watch some movies and hangout but before all the movies were done two of my friends were out, leaving only me and my guy friend the only two awake. I am VERY attracted to my friend. We are all very touchy so everyone of us cuddles with eachother but lately ive been feeling like its different. lastnight i was laying next to him like we normally do and i layed my had on his abs. Just seeing what he would do i started rubbing his stomach all the way into his pants. He grabbed my hand once and pulled it out but then he put it back. when my hand went in the second time he was hard and i nervously started to give him a handjob. he didnt stop me and he started rubbing my breast. after we were done he sent me a message (since we didnt want to wake up our friends) saying "we are being dumb, were best friends, if they found out they would hate us" i agreed but then after he kissed me and told me he love it. Is he interested in me?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (21 September 2010):
 He's interested in part of you(your hands). There is NOTHING better than a great handjob. but it doesn't lead to love automatically. If you like giving him hamd jobs keep on but I don't think it's 'true love".
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): he just wants to get some! notice he said he loved it not you! he wants sex not love!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 A penis can often override the brain's input in a body, ESPECIALLY in a young man's body. I'm sure the penis demanded that it be rubbed, despite the brain's objection. Once the rubbing ceased, the brain was able to re-establish control and alert the young man that what had just happened was probably a bad idea.
He has feelings for you, no doubt, as you are friends already. The feelings just may not match up with yours for him.
My suggestion would be to back off now, don't make anymore overtly sexual moves at the moment and see if his big brain gets more in line with his penis and admit if he's really attracted to you or not. Perhaps the suggestion that you are losing interest of the romantic kind for him due to other, wonderful and interesting guys chasing you like crazy might make him realize he's about to lose you to another, and encourage him to take action.
Believe me, I know where you are right now. It's not much fun and it would be wiser in the long term to give him room, don't crowd him or come on to him any more. Keep your dignity intact, okay? You'll be happier you did years from now.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 June 2010):
I don't think so. In the heat of the moment he decided to get a quick thrill. That's as far is this went really. And he even went on to say that you were best friends. You need to be careful that he doesn't end up using you.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 It sounds to me that he is just looking for friends with benefits and not an actual relationship. There is almost no guy who would refuse a sexual act even when there is no desire to actually be with that person. If you are intersted in him then try dating but stay away from anything sexual until you have some idea that he wants to be with you and not use you.
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