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writes: my boyfriend and i have been living together for 2 years now. we have a great relationship and good sex. my only concern is that he looks at shemale porn. is this normal? i'm a little nervous to ask him about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): No its not normal.
I also look at shemale porn. I divulged this to my wife after I proposed to her. (not the most romantic, but it was the time to reveal all truths) Strangely she was not that mad. We have accepted each others "fantasies" as just that, fantasies. We have a great open and honest relationship with a great sex life. This seems strange but acceptance an honesty are the core catalysts for love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007): i have the same question.... i found out my recently exboyfriend was responding to those casual encounters craigslist ad's for shemales. Whenever we would get into a big fight and not talk for a couple of days, he would do it then..... to my knowledge it never actually worked out..and he didnt get to meet up with them...but still..ew! what does it mean?? oh and he never told me about this...threw some nancy drew footwork i found out...i read the emails where he would go on and on about how a certain picture of the she/he was hott etc. i feel so tricked. and i feel like i cant move on until i make some sense of this for myself. i dont need to get any resolve from him...but i really would like to get my head around this. the blow to my ego..the damage to my self esteem.... and the price i paid with my dignity (for going back to him over and over believing he really wanted to stop) have left me almost totally anhilated and nearly unable to function in my world anymore. thanks for your time
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reader, cam  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 personally i would not say this was normal.. if this bothers you i think you should confront him. but if it really doesnt cause any problems with the relationship then it mite not b worth thinking about.
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 Normal is defined as "something the average masses find acceptable." So I can't tell you if your boyfriend looking at shemale porn is normal or not, since I am only one opinion. But... It seems to me, as long as it is not causeing a strain in your relationship or your sex life, I wouldn't worry about it. I don't know if he is buying magazines, or subscribing to shemale websites, but I do know that these pictures are often circulated through email for shock factor. My bf has gotten a few of these pictures from his friends, with notes, "Can you believe this is a guy?" I chalk it up to juvenile humor and let it go. If your bf's collection is extensive, I'd simply approach him and try to find out what the appeal is. Maybe by questioning him, you will open up your lines of communication. That way you can find out the reasons first hand rather than asking us for our opinions, where we can only specualate the reasons. Hope this helps.
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