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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriends past girlfriends have all been thick and i am the first girlfriend he has had that is thin. He tells me he is unhappy with sex since i am thin but tells me that sex is not everything in a relationship. I still feel like to him it is everything because some days he is great and other days he looks depressed. Recently two of his ex girlfriends have contacted him admitting that they want him back. What should i do?
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reader, MutantKitten  +, writes (18 January 2009):
 Honeeeeey.
There are LOTS better of better guys who APPRECIATE thin women.
No need to be upset that you're not chubby!!
Those exes would probaby die to look like you.
Anyway, any guy who makes you feel bad about your physical appearance, and doesn't tell you you're beautiful every day is not worth your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): I'd let his exes fight it out over him. He's not worth having if he can't accept you for the way you are. There's nothing wrong with being thin just as long as you're healthy and not anorexic.
Why did he hook up with you in the first place if he didn't like thin women?
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reader, Amity=Friendship +, writes (18 January 2009):
Your boyfriend shouldn't be having problems in bed with you because you aren't a certain body type. Sex is not about how convenient or easy it is, it is about your love for one another and how you share it. I don't think that anyone should ever tell anyone that they are not happy with their sex. It is their job to fix it if they are unhappy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): Don't be so down about being thin...and don't b so insecure that his past gf's are thick...he must not always like them thick if he's with you...I suggest that you try and spice things up in the bedroom if he tells you that he's unhappy..it won't hurt to try new things I'm thin and my guy loves having sex with me..:)and all of his past gf's have been thick too..but that neccasarily doesn't mean that the sex was better.
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