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*elony
writes:Okay, I'll try and keep this short and sweet and thank you to those bothering to help 3I've been with my boyfriend 7 months, both 16 years old, and we got together in a way some people may think as wrong. He was with a girl for a month, but they hardly spoke or anything. Really distant relationship, she ended up moving to another part of the country and my boyfriend then grew closer to me. Eventually he finished her, and asked me out.So at the start of our relationship everything was really good(as they all are). However, as we got further into the relationship I became extremely controlling and jealous. I don't like him doing things without me and now it's got to the point were he has to lie to me about where he is because he knows I'll get upset.2 months ago, a massive argument broke out and we almost broke up because of my controlling ways and how I was really picky about things and always having to complain about something. I said I would change and this was the biggest slap in the face for me. I did change, things got better, however I seem to have changed back to this complaining, controlling, jealous girlfriend. He doesn't deserve it at all.Now we had an argument yesterday because he had gone to see a member of his family behind my back and I personally didn't get on with her. He said they just sat and talked and chased each other around abit. I was really jealous over this and it has now caused him to give me one last chance to sort myself out.So this is where you come inI was hoping I could get some advice and help on how to change. I wasn't like this at all at the beginning of the relationship. I just want us to be a happy couple again. I have spoken to a close friend about the jealousy problem quite recently and we came to a conclusion that I don't believe he would cheat at all. I don't like him around other girls because I am so insecure(was bullied from around the age of 7 up until 14-15ish for my appearance, but I make an effort now). Anyway when I look at him, I believe he deserves the most beautiful girl in the world, and I find every other girl 10x prettier than me so inside it hurts me because I think he deserves them :/ .... Yeah, help ._.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): Tell him if he's not being truthful then he dosen't deserve you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): Did he cheat on his last girlfriend to be with you? Maybe this is why you are jealous and you probably can't trust him! Sometimes the answers aren't complicated, just simple but hard to look at.
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reader, adamskidude +, writes (27 April 2011):
 Just relax, that's all you can do.
If he wants to go see his family then you shouldnt be bothered by that.
Try and find something other than him to fill your time with.
Like a hobby, may I suggest fingerpainting, or pokémon white?
Just kidding, but seriously, he's not the only thing in your life, and if he is, add something else :)
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