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writes:hiyaIm at university and am still a virgin. At uni everyone talks about sex the whole time, its impossible to get away from. Im not really interested in sex atm, probably because i dont really know what im missing but i feel really left out and isolated as if im different.Has anyone else felt like this??
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reader, Cake1011  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 I would first like to say that I don't agree with BadAsh. Just because a person chooses to have sex, it doesn't mean that they have low standards. It doesn't mean that they are bad or slutty or whatever. There is nothing wrong with having sex. I would recommend ignoring this dude because he has some deep-seated issues with his sexuality.
Now you, don't feel bad. There is nothing wrong with you if you are not into sex. I'm actually a guy and I am both a virgin and borderline asexual. (To some people, I'm a walking contradiction. ^_^) I honestly believe that I can go my entire life without sex. :D Don't worry. Maybe you should join some clubs that focus on specific activities (watching anime, volunteering, politics, etc.) I would think that they would talk more about the activities, than sex. Don't feel weird. Everyone is different. Love yourself for who you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): Be proud of your feelings. My boyfriend was 21 when he lost his virginity (he's now early 30s) and I say it's a good thing. I lost my virginity at age 15 and I regret it very much. You are a mature, normal decent person. Do not feel bad.
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reader, BadAsh6705 +, writes (23 January 2008):
 Of course you are normal! Just because you aren't going around sleeping with everything that moves like most college students doesn't mean that you should change your standards or feel any less than anyone else.
I think most of these sexual encounters the people around you are getting involved in are not safe or anything to be proud of, they are just being led by their hormones! Don't feel like you are an outsider because you have higher standards than those around you.
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