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*essie Rose
writes:Um... okay. I like this boy (call him Danny), that much is blatantly obvious. His best friend (my best friend's boyfriend) found out and has told him and Danny didn't believe him!! I suggested showing Danny the texts on his phone (but then he got grounded so I don't know if he has) and I've texted him asking if he's alright, but he hasn't replied and I don't know what to think! My best friend and her boyfriend think it's all going to plan, but I'm petrified, because at the same time I've been tangled up in a huge row between my friends and one of our old friends, so it's really hard to find free time to think! I haven't talked to him face to face about it because I don't know what exactly has been said. Do you think it'll be fine? I don't know, because I'm convinced he's going to say no if I ask him out. I have him in two of my lessons tomorrow. Should I talk to him about it? Or leave it and see what happens?
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reader, Nessie Rose +, writes (16 March 2009):
Nessie Rose is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks! I did take your advice (bow to each) and now I have a boyfriend. Thank you!!
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be +, writes (10 March 2009):
 Maybe he's just out of credit. It happens and causes unbeleivable mix-ups, lol, trust me.
Anyways, I reckon your safest bet is just to talk to him. Dont necessarily ask him out: just find out how he's been, etc. Once you've spoken to him in person, you'll know more or less how he feels towards you: if it feels like he's uncomfortable, leave it. If he still talks to you like before, and seems completely at ease around you, then little has changed, from his point of view, and you should just go ahead and ask him.
Good luck!
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (10 March 2009):
 Talk to him!
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (10 March 2009):
 I say bite the bullet and ask him out. If he says no, then you can start to move on rather than waste your time pining over him.
Go for it. Guys like a girl with confidence. And really, the absolute worst that could happen is that he says 'No', and in the grand scheme of things, that's not so bad.
Plus, even if he says No, he will be nice about it for sure since you all have the same friends. He really wouldn't want to look like an awful cad to them.
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