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writes:I know this guy who talks to all these girls on msn and by phone he has never met them, and always agrees to meet them which never actually takes place, when I was with him he still talked to them and went to them with his problems instead of coming to me, when I was his girlfriend and because of it and his mood swings the relationship feel apart, now he will not leave me alone, and he hasn't told his parents that we have split up yet.I don't know what to do any more, cause I'm with a new guy, and I just want him out my life and to understand that it isn't right to talk to all these people on msn and stuff, but he won't listen to me or even his closest mate, we're worried about him, and ideas on what to do?thanks xx
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (10 March 2009):
 It sounds like he has some emotional committment issues if he can't come to his partner with a problem. The internet makes it increasingly easy for people to divulge their problems to other because of the anonymity. This is why he never meets the girls, because then he wouldn't feel as free to be open with someone that can now put his face to the email.
Sit down with his parents and let them know what has been going on. At the very least the parts about you wo being broken up and you having a BF now. They can best observe his behavior and decide if they want to get him into counseling for his denial.
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