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*illyspice
writes:I have been in relationship for fifteen years now with my boyfriend.We have two children, but my boyfriend is not satisfied because he is not working. So he is now seeing a another woman who has money. This is killing me. He says everything will be ok, but I don't believe him. I love him alot and don't want to leave him. Please tell me what to do.* Note from moderator: In the future please try to use punctuation and capitalization.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (19 June 2007):
 What does he mean when he says "It will be Ok"? Is your bf a THEIF and is planning on robbing this woman to bring you money? Are you involved with a criminal? Are you going to be label a conspirator?
Lady...RUN.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, Clarey  +, writes (19 June 2007):
 Buy a book called "Love Must be Tough" and it will tell you exactly what to do step by step. It is by Dr J Dobson. It will liberate your mind and give you back your power. If your relationship can be saved it will help you do that from a strong position, not a weak one. You are dealing with a very selfish and greedy partner. I know you love him, but I am sure you don't love this and you may well despise him in the end if he carries on. You aren't a dog that should lie down and lick the soles of his shoes. What are you, a subservient wimp or a strong courageous woman? Get out there and kick some butt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): he will not stop this affair unless you leave as he knows you are putting up with it. this man has no respect for you and your children ans seems very selfish. show him that you at least have some respect for yourself.
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reader, Skeez +, writes (19 June 2007):
 Hun. Your boyfriend is cheating on you, not only is he doing that, he seems to be using this other girl for her money. This is terrible. You have to get out of that relationship, he is deffinetly not worth it if hes ruining two ladies lives. You have to realise what he is doing is wrong and if he wants to carry on with his attitude then he should go it alone. Get out of the relationship and find someone who will treat you with respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): I have the same problem when I read this its almost as if you wrote wat has been on my mnid, Im destroying my relationship by been a nagging bitch and I don't know how to stop. Im so insecure.
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