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*urakchya
writes:So,I have been in relation with this guy since when i was in 9th grade and now I am in 11th.We were together for a year and went very well.Now I am in USA,he loves me alot and we trust each other.He does not flirt with other girls and never hurts my feeling but is into sex?We have been going naked on cam for each other a lot and I trust him with it.He doesn't force me for anything,but the problem is he sometimes wants to do it many times a day.He is worried too about how he thinks about "those stuffs" all the time.We have talked about this together but end up doing the same things again.That does not mean he is just interested in my body does it?I feel happy that he is not into other girls but at same time confused? Are all boys the same?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (16 August 2011):
 Not all boys are the same but he is at that point in his life when his hormones are going a little crazy. It is good that he is forward with you and isn't pressuring you into anything but you know what he wants and you have to decide if that is what you want as well.
If you two are in an LDR I doubt he is just interested in you for your body because by the sounds of it you two have not really done anything in person. If he was just there for your body he would keep that kind of relationship going.
Alot of boys (and girls) frequently think about sex while going through puberty and then afterwards as well. It is completely normal. My concern is what you originally thought the cam shows and things would lead to. In my mind that would show that you are leading up to sex when you two get together.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (16 August 2011):
 Yeah, that's normal. Teenage guys are feeling a massive rush of hormones, and the vast majority of them eat, drink, and think sex.
However, I *must* warn you. Stop immediately going naked online. Don't do it! It only takes one breakup and him spreading that stuff all over the internet, and you're severely screwed.
DO NOT GO NAKED ON WEBCAM.
DO NOT GO NAKED ON WEBCAM.
In case I wasn't clear enough....
DO. NOT. GO. NAKED. ON. WEBCAM.
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