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writes:I'm 22 years old and I'm with a man who is 42 and we're about to have a baby. And the past couple months have been horrid! He doesent talk to me or even realize that I'm talking completely ignores me all the time. We don't even make love anymore and I'm starting to wonder if I made a huge mistake. UK don't know weather to leave him or try to stay. I tell him he's doing these things but the next day there forgotten just like me. I'm so unhappy! He was so wonderful and now its like he could care less. What should I do? Help please! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): I think it's a serious problem and you should see a councelor to talk about your problem.the councelor also can talk to your husbond about his behaviour.also you should move out for 2 weeks.maybe during that time your husbond will miss you and change his manner.did you tell him how much you love him???
if not,tell him
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): You should speak with him and discuss the big problem that you're about have a baby.On the other hand, you could speak with his parents or frinds to solve the problem.I suggest speaking with him cuz no one can solve the problem for you .I hope that the problem will disappear soon .
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 hun if you're so unhappy then why stay?
why bring your child up in an unhappy environment it's not fair do what is best for you and your child and get out of there.
he probably thinks he's got what he wanted and now you're "knocked" up he don't want to know.
you could try to talk to him but you said he ignores you so why put yourself through misery when you can go out there and enjoy your life and bring your child up in a HAPPY environment. you need to do what you feel is right for you and your child and what you feel you'll both be happier with whether it's this man whom doesn't show any care or love towards you and may not with the baby either or whether it's being on your own with your baby and loving him/her with all your heart and having there love back then waiting for someone who will TRULY love you.
Hope this helps x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, im-the-one-to-ask +, writes (2 July 2009):
you should tell him that if he doesent start paying atetion to you then you should leave him he might just want the baby and not you. if he doesnt start to pay more attention to you and the baby then you should definately need to leave him. im sure that there are many other guys out there that would love to start a family with you and want to still spend personal time with you.
hope this helps,
best of luck :)
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