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writes:A week and 2 dayz.. Wth!!!? help!?Okay so ill try to be short and sweet,My bf and i been together for 13 months Im 21 he's 24 we usually see each other twice a week.We usually text each other "ALL'!!! the time(about random stuff) and call each other sometimes but not as much cause we both work busy jobs and by the time we get home is super later and where tired.The last time he texted me was on the 2nd of April it is now the 12th April and i still haven't heard from him,and i really have no idea why?? We didn't have a fight and we didn't argue or anything. The last text from him read "is it busy at work" and i replied its "neutral and that was it.I called that same day and he didn't pick up ,the phone went to voice mail i called twice.(could he be playing the lets see who contacts who first game???)Then on Saturday 11th one of his friends said to me "Hey how come you didn't go to your 'step sons birthday party" YEA he has a (2) year old son and i was like cause i wasn't informed about a party(cause he knows better than to invite me and i know he would not have) and i would not have attended anyway because it would be a awkward cause i never meet the kid or his mother i just see pictures of the kid. SOOO.. i honestly dont know what to think of this WHY IS HE IGNORIN OR AVOIDING ME? :( should i call?,should i text?? or should i just wait?? and if he does call me or text me first sayin hey or something what should i do or say? PLEASE HELP (NO SMART A$$ answers allowed lol) only mature contributions please thks : )
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reader, basil76 +, writes (14 April 2010):
Hi there, With time I've found that most men don't react to problems or issues like we do. They don't look for their buddies to talk , seek opinion, or advice. They ussually hide in their heads until they figure it out. In my opinion jsut txt him and make sure he knows you are there to support him, and wait for him to txt u or call u back. Not too long though, I mean if he takes longer than 3 weeks I would say to start keeping your options open. Be open to what he has to say, don't judge, and listen.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 April 2010):
Call him and ask him what's going on. For something to change so quickly, there could be something wrong. I think you should call him and just calmly (don't be mad or too forceful, you won't get an answer) ask him how he is and what he's been up to. Start there and see what he says.
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