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writes: I'm moving back to my hometown in a couple of months, after 3 years. Thought I would try out this mobile site to meet new people from there. My intention was to never find anyone, but I had an interest in this guy I found, and it has peaked highly. For the past week we've been mainly chatting on the cell, staying up late until like 2 am. He's been giving me signs, which is what confuses me. He tells me he's a sucker for "great smile" and "pretty eyes" and always complimenting me on how a great girl I am. Were actually planning to meet in the summer when I move back to my hometown. At first it seemed I had to look for him first but turns out he's shy. Recently I told him that I had an interest in him, but he had a bad reaction. He basically told me he doesn't know why cause he has a lack of self esteem. He doesn't think he's much of a good looker but I think he's fairly cute. He's also a great guy, who has many similar beliefs as I do but there are a few differences. After that bad reaction I decided to stop talking to him. But after a day he started chatting with me like nothing happened. That really confuses me!! He tells me I'm really fun to talk to and that he missed talking to me. He has never told he has an interest for me back, so what are his real intentions? or is he just too shy? is it the long distance? Plz help any answers appreciated.
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 Sounds like he just has very low self esteem. Some people's self esteem is so low that they don't know how to take compliments very well. If he's talking to you all of this time and staying up late chatting then he definitely likes you and is interested in you. Unfortunately low self esteem can be a turnoff and also could be a sign of deeper issues.
If you get along with him try pursuing a relationship... just be cautious.
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