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He has no sex drive and he looks at me like he 'hates' me. What is up with this guy?

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Question - (9 August 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2007)
A female Canada age , *ever one writes:

i was going out with this guy who has been burnt by a couple of women he has no sex drive i dont think he has any interest in sex period but the 2 times he has pleasured me in other ways i get this feeling that he hates me at that point its like something takes over and they way he looks at me its like he hates my guts then he will be talking to me on the computer and he will send porn icons with nothing else and when i say that looks like fun its like he gets mad. so i am not sure what his problem is do you have any ideas what the problem is.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007):

Hey I wrote an answer a few days back. It never got posted!

Anyways, my answer is that I am pretty sure he might be gay. So be careful.

And also he is a misogynist. That means that he hates women.

That's just bad. Run. Get out while you can.

Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007):

No, Dusky..I did mean narcissists, dear.

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (9 August 2007):

duskyrowe agony auntIrish 49...... you mean mysogonist not narcissists.

Mysogony means dislike of women

Narcissists means vain.... do you remember the tale of Narcissis who fell in love with his reflection? I think he is in greek mythology.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007):

He sounds really, really scary, creepy and I could be wrong but he sounds a tad narcisstic. Narcissists do not like women..period. In fact, they really do abhor the idea of sex, intimacy and love with a female. Most of them do not engage in sexual acts very rarely, if at all. So hun, any man who gives you the strong instinct, that he hates women likely has some deep rooted emotional issues. It sounds like he needs some professional help, hun. His treatment of you is not 'normal'. From the little you have said in your posting I would say, trying to have a relationship with a man like this is not worth your time and efforts. There simply are too many nice guys out there, to choose from. Just keep being smart and make a decison to draw back and quietly disappear out of this guy's life. Good luck, be strong, keep using your head and get rid of him!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007):

don't worry about his problem, run like hell before it becomes your problem, and trust me it will!

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A female reader, penta United States +, writes (9 August 2007):

penta agony auntSounds like he's not an especially fun person to be with. Run.

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