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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I love my fiance but i feel as its all falling apart and i want out i cant cry over him no longer, the long distance is driving me crazy and theres no way to fix it at this time ive waited a year to fix it but were still were we were a year ago and i just feel as everything is going down hill i cant see him as things are always coming up but what is a good way to let him down easy over the phone. I Thank you for your advise any would help i just am at the point where there is nothing to hold on to i cant stand being away from him any more no way tho change it and its tearing me up inside ive tried talking to him but nothing i hear the same old answers everytime and i end up crying my self to sleep if i can sleep my nerves are shot and im really stressed over not being able to ever see him its been 3 months i just need out.what can i say to let him down easy over the phone? but get my point a cross that i am fed up and its really over
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reader, i do anything to help  +, writes (9 August 2007):
 I know wot u mean about the long distance. If u r rele down about this thn u r doin the rite thing in letting him go. Its obveriously getting u down and it is always best 2 have some 1 that u can talk to and hu is a gd listener.
It is gd that u tried 2 keep the relationship as now at least u can say u tried. In my eyes long distance relationships neva work out and it rele gets people down knowing u cant just go and see him. Basically u rele do nee 2 tlk 2 him about this. It will be rele hard 4 u 2 say the words but u know its the right thing to do. U will properly feel very upset for a while and evenuchly it will ease off. U will fidn some1 close 2 u and u cn get a proper reltionship goin where u are happy and not crying all the time.
So i wish u the best and everthing will trun out ok in the end :) xxxx
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