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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend has a really small nipple on one side and a huge one on the other. theres almost a 2 cm difference! its a major turn off what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2007):
Ok, I dont know for a fact what the opperation or technique is, but...
If you watch these plastic surgery shows, they are always moving around a nipple or creating a new one where they want it. Not sure exactly how it is done- I have assumed exposing the skin to hormones.
Anyway I think there are at least three viable options:
- consult a plastic surgeon. I get the feeling this is an easy fix for them.
http://www.aboardcertifiedplasticsurgeonresource.com/nipple-augmentation/enlargement.html
- tattoo the smaller one larger. this is appearently a popular option. I guess you could try marker to see if the effect works for you.
- pump or stretch the smaller one. There is BME stuff you can buy, so this is probably a cheep option. Not sure they would endup looking the same even if the size was the same.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (11 January 2007):
 Yeah, that's kind of weird. And I'm not exactly sure if you can "chisel" them - sounds like that would HURT like CRAZY!! Ahhh! I don't think there's anything you can really do about the size.
So there's nothing you can do to fix them. Pretty much you've got two choices:
1) Learn to love them
2) Keep his top half covered at all times
If they really turn you off, then I suppose the right chemistry just isn't there and it's time to move on. If you were head-over-heels in love with the guy, you might find his nipples charming.
I don't think it's cruel if you do break up with him. You're young. But, make sure you're breaking up with him for the right reasons - not just the nipples. The nipples you can get over.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (10 January 2007):
 wow what a question iam sorry to sound rude but why dont you just chisel them in order to obtain the same size? and you are still very young to be looking at your boyfriend's nipples. anyway dont worry at your age is normal to feel that way because one day when you are old enough and matured, you might find yourself loving someone with 6 eyes and three hands and when u look at them it will be a turn on, and naturally we wont understand how is that possible and u will be surprised why u cant even explain it because the feeling is overwhelming.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2007): First of all, I didn't read anything where you said you 'loved' him. It's likely you are just dating and learning about each other? Nothing can be done about his nipples. You are young and still have some maturing to do in regards to dating and boys. If the look of his nipples are turning you off, then go find someone who is more to your liking. Dating is a process all teens go through to learning about love and relationships. It's laying the groundwork for their future. And if there isn't a physical attaction because of the nipples, then things won’t work out. Because you will likely not get past it. Time to cut him loose-do it with care and compassion. I'm sure he'll bounce back and find some girl who doesn't care what his nipples look like. I have always said, in dating...respect for others, one's kind personality and good character should predominate over 'physical attributes'. No one is perfect, in this world I'm sure as you get older and gan more dating experience, you will realize that. Dating is a good life learning experience. It opens out eyes and our minds.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 It seems like a silly thing to split up over, im sure there are many other good qualities that this guy has that superseed having one nipple bigger than the other.
I agree with reader anonymous, if you love him you should see past it.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2007): If you really love him you should be able to see past this...
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reader, ingotblue +, writes (9 January 2007):
 If you love him it shouldnt matter to you, It may be because he had a pearcing or it maybe natural.
I am sorry but odd sized nipples sounds like a really stupid reason to loose the person you love.
Maybe you arent in love with him and you are subconciously looking for reasons to dump him, I suggest that you take a good look at your motives and see if you want to be with this man.
Good luck with it all
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