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male
age
30-35,
*gmitch
writes:About 2 months ago i was in a bar having a few drinks with a friend of mine when suddenly this guy who I have never seen before bought me a drink. I thought he was really really cute and was so happy he bought me a drink. But the next minute I know my phone rang and it was another friend of mine wanting to meet her that minute so I had to leave.I never saw the guy again until a week later, I found out he works in the pub that I now regularly go to. But I found out that he had gotten a partner that day.My heart sank. The only thought that runs throw my mind now is that if I didn't get that call from my friend and I went up to him I could possible be the happiest person in the world right now.I've seen him reguarlay since then and hes been flirting with me non-stop. Everytime I buy a drink and hes beside me, he playfully steals it and drinks a bit. He even was throwing ice cubes at me at one point but he had such a huge grin on his face when doing it (it wasn't like he was angry, he was playfully throwing them at me).It actually kills me now and I can't stop crying because I have properlay fallen for him.I found out just the other day he's moving away from the city I live in for a couple of years for college. What do I do? I need to tell him but he's got a partner as it is right now. I don't think I can keep it in much longer but I don't want to be humiliated especially as he works in the bar and I always go there and is the only place I can go to be myself.
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reader, CJH +, writes (23 January 2011):
 Difficult situation.I would say that theres no harm in actually telling him how you feel - if you dont youll probably regret it forever anyway.Just be sure that you dont cross the line and go with him whilst he is still in a relationship.You have everything to gain here and nothing to lose. Even if he knocks you back, at the very least it will be an end to your frustration wont it?Life is way to short to love with regrets about things you didnt do.
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