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writes:Hallo to all. i have the same problem as many people here as i sadly see.i am 27 years old and never had a girlfriend. never had the guts to go to one from my school / univercity etc and talk to her in a way implying i want sex.some times i tried getting to know women at clubs / bars but it went nowhere.i probably lack the social skills that you need in order to get involved in such situations. sometimes i feel like there is a password for getting sex and i dont know it... i want serious relationships but i also want to get full of sex before getting into one, so the "serious" girl wont notice that i was her first. many girls here say its nice to date a virgin etc BUT I DONT WANT TO BE CONSIDERDED AS THE STRANGE ONE...this has of course affected my life in many ways:-as years pass i think more and more of sex, so i dont give attention in ather aspects of my life (univercity, job, etc)-i dont feel confortable being around people who have sex while i dont so i have started drinking and drugs just to be able to talk to people.....-from time to time i think "why dont i have the right to have sex with 15 16 17 year old girls" DONT GET ME WRONG, of course now i wont be able to do so at 27, but most people start their sexual life at this age, so most probably they discover sex with partners of their age, why didnt i have the right to have that joy? i think about it and im afraid of doing anything stupid and hurting people and ending up in jail. i still have my mind straigt but im afraid i will lose it if this situation continues....the thing is i am KIND OF cool in my circle so never having a girl is probably my fault.another thing is that i dont want to go in a serious relationship with a girl that had 500 boyfriends while i had no girl and this makes the situation more complex..i recently had an eczema on my hands due to stress and im sure its because of that. you know, summer in greece, everyone gets ass except of me... :(as i said i dont know how to get a girl to have sex with me, but even if i could maybe i backed down with the fear that she would notice...i have read here that there are girls who like virgin men, so i think maybe i go to another country for some time and tell the girl i HOPEFULLY meet im virgin so i am not worried about finding out and then return to greece as a different person...what is your oppinion? sorry for the big text...
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 You have been with a prostitute but you are still a virgin?
If you want a woman to want you, you have to know yourself first. Many people are clueless about who they are when they first date. It is through a partner that they discover their real selves. What are your good qualities besides waiting for the right woman to have sex? What do you have that turns women on? Confidence comes when you gain experience. I think you are asking too much for now. When you become a skillful lover, you can concentrate more on making the relationship work. Yes, you are 27 you missed out on your youth but you still have to take it slowly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhallo again i am the one who posted the question, i wanted to add that going with a prostitute is ok, i have done it, there are places all over the world not only in las vegas, BUT its nothing compared to having a girl that WANTS you and having sex with Her all night and day... thus the one star for the lady.. :( i dont want to pay for sex i want to be WANTED
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (18 August 2010):
I would suggest you advertise yourself online truthfully as you are, and ask a woman to teach you the art of erotica. You may be surprised. Women are open minded and they like to teach you new things. If you think that only escorts would respond to you you are wrong. There are also lonely mid aged women who have desires too. You have to be open to women of all ages and sizes. Women who are attractive and young have other options besides teaching a virgin. That way no one gets hurt and it's not cheap. You are having too much hangups just because you are a virgin. Get that issue out of the way. I hope you are not looking for the special first time with another virgin. Your chances are getting slimmer as each year goes by.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): It sounds like you're only interested in having sex, not a real relationship with a woman. There are places in Las Vegas where that can happen (legally).
Good luck.
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